I had a follow-up appointment yesterday with the OB who performed the needed curretage a few weeks ago. I can’t say that I really learned anything helpful from the meeting.
Pathology on the baby came back normal though apparently no chromosomal analysis was done. I hadn’t realized that the pathology would only rule out ectopic or molar pregnancies. I already knew from the ultrasound that neither of those were concerns. So that was a costly dead end.
Chromosomal abnormalities? Perhaps, so she recommends testing for both me and my husband. I assume that we will go ahead and do that.
Progesterone deficiency? Perhaps, so she recommends taking Clomid when I’m ready to conceive again. I was not previously aware of using Clomid to treat potential progesterone deficiency or apparent “luteal phase defect.” Since I ovulate on our around the 15th cycle day, I don’t think LPD is my issue. However, I’m not ruling out some sort of hormone imbalance. When I’ve had HCG levels tested, those numbers have been just fine. But I’ve never had my progesterone level checked, and this OB wouldn’t do it anyway even after Clomid treatment. I find that odd. What if the Clomid wasn’t quite enough to sustain the corpus luteum until the placenta takes over? Wouldn’t it make sense that I could still possibly need progesterone supplementation even after conceiving on Clomid. (Remember that I have no conception problems; I’m just “failing” to sustain pregnancy right now.)
Immunological problems? Not suspected though I am inclined to disagree. I have a history of endometriosis, depression, low energy, and adult onset acne, for instance. My mother has rheumatoid arthritis which is an auto-immune disease. I rarely feel particularly “great,” but then again, given what I’ve been through this past year it would be hard to identify a great day even if it was right under my nose. I found the Reproductive Immunology Associates’ information on miscarriage prevention to be interesting, encouraging, disheartening, and overwhelming. I will pursue some of these ideas with local care providers.
Next month I will follow-up with another OB in town. I may also go see an endocrinologist who has been recommended. There are evidently fertility specialists as near as Spokane, so perhaps I should be contacting them? I have so many questions, and I don’t know if I’ll ever find answers. That’s perhaps the scariest part. At this moment I think I could deal with being told that trying to conceive again would not likely be successful for X, Y, or Z reasons. We do have one incredible child, and I might be inclined to consider adopting from abroad. But to have to deal with the unknown is what really worries me. Three miscarriages in a row “just” bad luck? How will I overcome that “diagnosis” if it is the most likely deduction?
Time will tell. Each day is different. Some days are ok and some are not. I am living moment to moment, hour to hour, day to day. Planning ahead for anything is excrutiating. But “ahead” will come whether I like it or not, whether I can deal with it right now or not, and whether I can deal with it then or not.